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06.05.25 | Arts & Culture

It’s Never Too Late to Change Your Mind

At Sage Collective®, we believe that aging is an opportunity to discover new depths of your evolution. One of the most liberating truths we come to understand with time is this: it’s never too late to change your mind. Whether it’s a shift in perspective, a change in attitude towards people, or a complete reinvention of self, the ability to change your mind is not a weakness but a superpower.

Because we believe that vibrant living doesn’t mean standing still, it means challenging yourself to never stop  evolving.

Why Changing Your Mind Is a Strength, Not a Weakness
We are under the impression that age equates to certainty. We expect that once we arrive at this stage in our lives we should be able to know ourselves fully, have our set beliefs that do not change, and continue to live our life exactly the same. Although, we forget that the various life stages can be the reason for growth and change.

Changing your mind does not mean you are indecisive, it means you have enough security to reevaluate certain aspects of your life. Maybe you had an opinion years ago that caused you and someone you love to drift apart, or you thought someone was your soulmate but it turns out your story ran its course, or maybe the shirt you used to be obsessed with is hideous to you now. Whatever it may be, it is emotionally intelligent to always be questioning who you are and where you stand on certain decisions. Growth can be about sticking to your guns and advocating for what you believe in but it can also be the humble act of reassessing the past.

Real-Life Examples of Late-in-Life Pivots
Nina Simone is one powerful example. Known early in her career as a classically trained pianist and acclaimed jazz and blues singer, Simone experienced a profound shift after attending the 1961 American Society of African Culture conference in Lagos, Nigeria. The trip was life-changing. It awakened a deeper connection to her identity and political purpose. From that point on, she became a fierce voice for civil rights—performing at protest rallies, writing political anthems, and lending her artistry to the movement. She changed her mind about what her platform was for—and in doing so, changed the world.

Another remarkable story is that of Iyanla Vanzant, who initially rose to public attention as a lawyer and spiritual teacher. But her true transformation came later in life. After facing personal hardships, including the death of her daughter and the dissolution of her marriage, Vanzant stepped into her power as a healer. She became a celebrated author, spiritual counselor, and host of Iyanla: Fix My Life—a role she took on in her late 50s. Her shift wasn’t just a career pivot—it was a complete reimagining of how she would use her voice.

And consider Ron Finley, the South Central Los Angeles fashion designer who, in his 50s, decided to change his life—and his neighborhood—by planting vegetables in abandoned lots. Now known as the “Gangsta Gardener,” Finley’s work has become a movement, promoting food justice, sustainability, and self-reliance. He changed his mind about where power and purpose come from, and discovered a new form of activism in the soil beneath his feet.

Reframing Your Story
There are multiple ways to stay on your feet and remain open to change:

  • Stay curious: Read books, watch films, and listen to music that challenge your thinking.
  • Embrace dialogue: Spend time with people who see the world differently.
  • Reflect often: Journal without judgment, allowing space for evolving insights.

At Sage Collective®, we believe aging is about stepping fully into your own wisdom and embracing that wisdom. Changing your mind in your later years isn’t a sign that you’ve lost your way; it’s often proof that you’ve finally found it.

We as humans make the mistake of thinking that there is a final destination when, in reality, we never stop growing. Therefore, it is our responsibility to treat that evolution with mindful reflection and openness to the change it can inflict.

You’re never too old to change your mind—because you’re never too old to grow.

The Gangsta Gardener, Ron Finley. Credit: U.S. Embassy New Zealand (https://www.flickr.com/people/46907600@N02). Wikimedia Commons, licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic license.
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05.15.25 | Mental Wellbeing

It’s Never Too Late to Reinvent Yourself

We live in a world that too often suggests we’re on a clock—that there’s a “right” time to start a new career, learn a new skill, fall in love, or rediscover joy. But at Sage Collective®, we believe life doesn’t come with an expiration date on possibility. “It’s Never Too Late” is a blog series dedicated to celebrating the bold truth that growth, reinvention, and adventure belong to every stage of life. Whatever your age, there is always room to dream bigger, live deeper, and embrace change—not as a concession, but as a courageous choice. Aging isn’t about limitation; it’s about opening new doors, on your own timeline.

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “It’s too late for me”? Maybe it came after turning 50—or 70. Maybe it was when someone asked what you do for fun or what your next dream is, and you didn’t know how to answer. Society has a way of feeding us the narrative that there’s an expiration date on growth, adventure, love, or reinvention. But at Sage Collective®, we’re here to remind you: reinvention has no age limit.

In fact, the second half of life can be the most rewarding chapter yet—when your confidence is earned, your values are clear, and your story still has room to surprise you.

Challenging the Myth of “Too Late”
From a young age, we are taught to measure life by milestones: graduate by this age, marry by that one, retire by another. And once those boxes are checked—or missed—we’re left wondering what’s next. Too often, mainstream culture glamorizes youth while ignoring the power, resilience, and wisdom that come with age. For older African Americans, especially, there’s an added layer of resistance—of having lived through systemic barriers and expectations that tried to limit what was possible.

But the truth is this: aging can be a superpower. By the time you reach midlife and beyond, you’ve gathered experience, perspective, and an assured sense of self. That clarity makes reinvention not only possible, but powerful. You know what matters. You know what you’re capable of. And you know that your worth doesn’t decline with age—it expands.

Real-Life Examples of Reinvention
Take Barbara Hillary, a Harlem-born nurse who beat breast and lung cancer before deciding—at age 75—to travel to the North Pole. Then at 79, she became the first Black woman to stand at the South Pole. Her story is a reminder that exploration doesn’t expire.

Or consider Ernestine Shepherd, who didn’t begin her fitness journey until she was 56 years old, and didn’t enter her first bodybuilding competition until she was 71. With determination, discipline, and a lot of early mornings, she became a competitive bodybuilder, personal trainer, and motivational speaker—and earned the title of “world’s oldest competitive female bodybuilder” in the Guinness Book of World Records.

Love, too, has no deadline. Maya Angelou once said, “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” And she lived that truth—continually redefining herself as a poet, activist, actress, and icon throughout her life.

Whether it’s falling in love, going back to school, starting a business, or finally giving yourself permission to dream differently—reinvention is not just for the young. It’s for the bold.

How to Start Reinventing Yourself
Ask yourself:

  • What part of my life feels unfulfilled?
  • What have I always wanted to try?
  • What stories am I still longing to tell?
  • What lights me up?

From there, set small, meaningful goals—whether it’s enrolling in a class, journalling daily, starting a walking group, or signing up for a Sage Vibrant Learning session.

Give yourself permission to be a beginner again. To not have all the answers. To try, to fail, and to grow.

You’re Right on Time
At Sage Collective®, we believe that every stage of life is rich with potential. Reinvention doesn’t mean discarding who you are—it means building on everything you’ve lived through to become something even fuller. So the next time you wonder if it’s too late, remember: it’s not. It never is.

You’re not behind. You’re right on time.

 

Barbara Hillary. @unearthwomen Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/p/C4BGMBfMUWl/)
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08.24.23 | Mental Wellbeing

Forgiving Oneself and Others

Forgiveness is a cornerstone of one’s personal growth journey, and its importance can’t be overstated. At the very core, forgiving yourself starts as a choice, a conscious decision to release the weight of past regrets and to make peace with your actions and decisions, and with that choice comes the foundational elements of empathy, understanding, compassion, and kindness.

Empathy plays a crucial role in this journey. By putting oneself in another’s shoes, we not only gain perspective but also allow for healing to commence. It helps us to see beyond our narrow viewpoint and understand the broader picture. It reminds us that everyone, including ourselves, is fighting a battle that we may know nothing about.

Alongside empathy, understanding is pivotal. This means recognizing our mistakes, learning from them, and accepting that everyone has their journey filled with both ups and downs. Acceptance doesn’t mean we forget or condone mistakes, but rather that we recognize them as part of our growth.

When we look at our past with love and understanding, rather than judgment, we begin to heal. And once we show compassion towards others, even when it feels undeserved, we often find that we’re lightening our own burdens. It’s a mutual process of healing – for ourselves and for others.

Kindness is the thread that stitches together the fabric of forgiveness. It could be in small, daily acts or larger gestures. Whether it’s being gentle with oneself on a tough day or showing kindness to someone who might not have treated us well, these actions have a ripple effect. Kindness not only fosters an environment where forgiveness can thrive but also nurtures our own soul.

Despite understanding these foundational elements, we must remember that the act of forgiveness is fundamentally a choice. It’s a decision we make, transitioning from denial or resentment to a state of acceptance. This choice isn’t always easy; barriers often stand in our way. Yet, with determination, these barriers can be overcome.

Even after choosing forgiveness, the journey isn’t over. It’s essential to realize that forgiveness isn’t a one-time act or a destination but an ongoing process. Making peace with past mistakes, allowing ourselves the grace to move forward, and embracing the future with resilience are all parts of this continuous journey.

While the path of forgiving oneself and others can be strewn with challenges, it is a necessary step towards achieving inner peace and profound personal growth for your own Vibrant Living. So, as you move forward, reflect upon your journey, choose forgiveness, and embrace the healing that it brings!

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05.11.23 | Sage Advice®

Mindful Movement: Exploring Tai Chi, Yoga and Qigong as Spiritual Practices

As we age, the importance of mindfulness becomes increasingly evident in fostering a vibrant and fulfilling life. By engaging in mindful movement practices like Tai Chi, Yoga, and Qigong, older adults can unlock numerous physical, mental, and emotional benefits. These spiritual practices not only empower individuals to lead healthier and more connected lives but also serve as valuable resources for personal growth and self-discovery. Join us as we delve into the world of Tai Chi, Yoga, and Qigong to explore how these practices promote a life of wellness, empowerment, and personal growth for anyone practicing them: 

Tai Chi

Often referred to as “meditation in motion,” Tai Chi is a Chinese martial art that combines slow, deliberate movements with deep, focused breathing. This practice is an excellent option for older adults seeking a vibrant lifestyle, as it promotes flexibility, balance, and strength while reducing stress and anxiety. By engaging in Tai Chi, individuals can improve their overall well-being and connect with others in a supportive, communal environment. Furthermore, the emphasis on mindful movement and inner tranquility makes Tai Chi a powerful spiritual practice, fostering a deeper understanding of oneself and the world.

Yoga

Yoga is an ancient Indian practice that harmonizes the mind, body, and spirit through a combination of physical postures, breath control, and meditation. For older adults looking to enhance their vibrant living experience, yoga offers numerous benefits, including increased flexibility, strength, balance, and relaxation. Yoga also fosters mental and emotional well-being by promoting mindfulness and stress reduction. By offering various styles and modifications, individuals can tailor their yoga practice to their needs and abilities, empowering them to explore their personal growth journey. Through this exploration, Yoga becomes not just a physical exercise, but a spiritual practice that allows older adults to connect with their inner selves and the world around them.

Qigong

Qigong is a Chinese healing art that integrates physical postures, breathing techniques, and focused intention to cultivate and balance the body’s vital energy, or “qi.” This gentle practice can greatly benefit older adults by enhancing overall health, reducing stress, and improving balance and coordination, all of which contribute to a more vibrant lifestyle. Additionally, Qigong promotes mental clarity and emotional stability, providing a sense of harmony and interconnectedness with the self and the world. As a spiritual practice, Qigong offers a holistic approach to wellness, empowering older adults to lead more fulfilling and purposeful lives.

Local community centers, gyms, and studios often provide tailored classes for older adults to learn and practice mindful movement disciplines. For those who prefer learning at home, numerous online resources, such as instructional videos and virtual classes, are available on platforms like YouTube and Google. Public libraries and bookstores also offer books and DVDs for various skill levels and abilities. By exploring these resources, older adults can seamlessly incorporate mindful movement into their vibrant daily lives.

Embracing mindful movement practices like Tai Chi, Yoga, and Qigong offers older adults a wealth of physical, mental, and emotional benefits, contributing to a vibrant and fulfilling life. With numerous resources available, there’s no better time to explore these spiritual practices and enhance wellness, empowerment, and personal growth. 

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