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06.05.25 | Arts & Culture

It’s Never Too Late to Change Your Mind

At Sage Collective®, we believe that aging is an opportunity to discover new depths of your evolution. One of the most liberating truths we come to understand with time is this: it’s never too late to change your mind. Whether it’s a shift in perspective, a change in attitude towards people, or a complete reinvention of self, the ability to change your mind is not a weakness but a superpower.

Because we believe that vibrant living doesn’t mean standing still, it means challenging yourself to never stop  evolving.

Why Changing Your Mind Is a Strength, Not a Weakness
We are under the impression that age equates to certainty. We expect that once we arrive at this stage in our lives we should be able to know ourselves fully, have our set beliefs that do not change, and continue to live our life exactly the same. Although, we forget that the various life stages can be the reason for growth and change.

Changing your mind does not mean you are indecisive, it means you have enough security to reevaluate certain aspects of your life. Maybe you had an opinion years ago that caused you and someone you love to drift apart, or you thought someone was your soulmate but it turns out your story ran its course, or maybe the shirt you used to be obsessed with is hideous to you now. Whatever it may be, it is emotionally intelligent to always be questioning who you are and where you stand on certain decisions. Growth can be about sticking to your guns and advocating for what you believe in but it can also be the humble act of reassessing the past.

Real-Life Examples of Late-in-Life Pivots
Nina Simone is one powerful example. Known early in her career as a classically trained pianist and acclaimed jazz and blues singer, Simone experienced a profound shift after attending the 1961 American Society of African Culture conference in Lagos, Nigeria. The trip was life-changing. It awakened a deeper connection to her identity and political purpose. From that point on, she became a fierce voice for civil rights—performing at protest rallies, writing political anthems, and lending her artistry to the movement. She changed her mind about what her platform was for—and in doing so, changed the world.

Another remarkable story is that of Iyanla Vanzant, who initially rose to public attention as a lawyer and spiritual teacher. But her true transformation came later in life. After facing personal hardships, including the death of her daughter and the dissolution of her marriage, Vanzant stepped into her power as a healer. She became a celebrated author, spiritual counselor, and host of Iyanla: Fix My Life—a role she took on in her late 50s. Her shift wasn’t just a career pivot—it was a complete reimagining of how she would use her voice.

And consider Ron Finley, the South Central Los Angeles fashion designer who, in his 50s, decided to change his life—and his neighborhood—by planting vegetables in abandoned lots. Now known as the “Gangsta Gardener,” Finley’s work has become a movement, promoting food justice, sustainability, and self-reliance. He changed his mind about where power and purpose come from, and discovered a new form of activism in the soil beneath his feet.

Reframing Your Story
There are multiple ways to stay on your feet and remain open to change:

  • Stay curious: Read books, watch films, and listen to music that challenge your thinking.
  • Embrace dialogue: Spend time with people who see the world differently.
  • Reflect often: Journal without judgment, allowing space for evolving insights.

At Sage Collective®, we believe aging is about stepping fully into your own wisdom and embracing that wisdom. Changing your mind in your later years isn’t a sign that you’ve lost your way; it’s often proof that you’ve finally found it.

We as humans make the mistake of thinking that there is a final destination when, in reality, we never stop growing. Therefore, it is our responsibility to treat that evolution with mindful reflection and openness to the change it can inflict.

You’re never too old to change your mind—because you’re never too old to grow.

The Gangsta Gardener, Ron Finley. Credit: U.S. Embassy New Zealand (https://www.flickr.com/people/46907600@N02). Wikimedia Commons, licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic license.
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05.15.25 | Mental Wellbeing

It’s Never Too Late to Reinvent Yourself

We live in a world that too often suggests we’re on a clock—that there’s a “right” time to start a new career, learn a new skill, fall in love, or rediscover joy. But at Sage Collective®, we believe life doesn’t come with an expiration date on possibility. “It’s Never Too Late” is a blog series dedicated to celebrating the bold truth that growth, reinvention, and adventure belong to every stage of life. Whatever your age, there is always room to dream bigger, live deeper, and embrace change—not as a concession, but as a courageous choice. Aging isn’t about limitation; it’s about opening new doors, on your own timeline.

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “It’s too late for me”? Maybe it came after turning 50—or 70. Maybe it was when someone asked what you do for fun or what your next dream is, and you didn’t know how to answer. Society has a way of feeding us the narrative that there’s an expiration date on growth, adventure, love, or reinvention. But at Sage Collective®, we’re here to remind you: reinvention has no age limit.

In fact, the second half of life can be the most rewarding chapter yet—when your confidence is earned, your values are clear, and your story still has room to surprise you.

Challenging the Myth of “Too Late”
From a young age, we are taught to measure life by milestones: graduate by this age, marry by that one, retire by another. And once those boxes are checked—or missed—we’re left wondering what’s next. Too often, mainstream culture glamorizes youth while ignoring the power, resilience, and wisdom that come with age. For older African Americans, especially, there’s an added layer of resistance—of having lived through systemic barriers and expectations that tried to limit what was possible.

But the truth is this: aging can be a superpower. By the time you reach midlife and beyond, you’ve gathered experience, perspective, and an assured sense of self. That clarity makes reinvention not only possible, but powerful. You know what matters. You know what you’re capable of. And you know that your worth doesn’t decline with age—it expands.

Real-Life Examples of Reinvention
Take Barbara Hillary, a Harlem-born nurse who beat breast and lung cancer before deciding—at age 75—to travel to the North Pole. Then at 79, she became the first Black woman to stand at the South Pole. Her story is a reminder that exploration doesn’t expire.

Or consider Ernestine Shepherd, who didn’t begin her fitness journey until she was 56 years old, and didn’t enter her first bodybuilding competition until she was 71. With determination, discipline, and a lot of early mornings, she became a competitive bodybuilder, personal trainer, and motivational speaker—and earned the title of “world’s oldest competitive female bodybuilder” in the Guinness Book of World Records.

Love, too, has no deadline. Maya Angelou once said, “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” And she lived that truth—continually redefining herself as a poet, activist, actress, and icon throughout her life.

Whether it’s falling in love, going back to school, starting a business, or finally giving yourself permission to dream differently—reinvention is not just for the young. It’s for the bold.

How to Start Reinventing Yourself
Ask yourself:

  • What part of my life feels unfulfilled?
  • What have I always wanted to try?
  • What stories am I still longing to tell?
  • What lights me up?

From there, set small, meaningful goals—whether it’s enrolling in a class, journalling daily, starting a walking group, or signing up for a Sage Vibrant Learning session.

Give yourself permission to be a beginner again. To not have all the answers. To try, to fail, and to grow.

You’re Right on Time
At Sage Collective®, we believe that every stage of life is rich with potential. Reinvention doesn’t mean discarding who you are—it means building on everything you’ve lived through to become something even fuller. So the next time you wonder if it’s too late, remember: it’s not. It never is.

You’re not behind. You’re right on time.

 

Barbara Hillary. @unearthwomen Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/p/C4BGMBfMUWl/)
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