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11.13.25 | Sage Advice®

Plug-in to Care: Honoring National Family Caregivers Month 2025

Each November, we pause to honor the millions of family caregivers whose compassion, patience, and daily dedication sustain loved ones across generations. This year’s National Family Caregivers Month theme—“Plug-in to Care”—invites all of us to connect more deeply: to one another, to resources, and to the networks that make caregiving more supported and sustainable.

At Sage Collective®, we believe that vibrant living thrives on connection. Our mission has always been to inspire older adults to live more fully—through community, creativity, and conscious care of mind, body, and spirit. The “Plug-in to Care” theme beautifully echoes those values, reminding us that no one should walk the caregiving journey alone.

The Meaning Behind “Plug-in to Care”
Caregiving today is more interconnected than ever before. The phrase “plug-in” highlights both the digital and human aspects of connection—using technology, education, and community to empower caregivers and reduce isolation. Whether that means joining a virtual support group, exploring a caregiving app, or simply reaching out for a conversation, the act of plugging in reinforces that support is available and community is near.

At its heart, this year’s theme is about recognition: seeing caregivers not only as helpers, but as vital members of our health and social ecosystems. When caregivers are equipped with tools and support, everyone benefits—from the person receiving care to the broader community around them.

Connection in Action
To “plug-in to care” means finding—and offering—connection in many forms:

  • Access tools and knowledge. Online workshops, educational videos, and caregiving platforms can offer practical skills, emotional reassurance, and inspiration.
  • Tap into networks. Community centers, local nonprofits, and organizations like Sage Collective® create spaces—both virtual and in-person—where caregivers can share stories, advice, and encouragement.
  • Seek emotional and spiritual nourishment. Caregiving can be as emotionally demanding as it is rewarding. Mindfulness, journaling, and meditation—practices we regularly explore at Sage Collective—can restore balance and resilience.
  • Celebrate the caregivers themselves. Recognition matters. Whether through a heartfelt note, shared meal, or public acknowledgment, expressing gratitude honors the humanity and strength behind caregiving.

Join Us: Caregiving & Self-Care — Finding Balance in the Journey
In honor of National Family Caregivers Month, Sage Collective® is hosting a special Facebook Live event: “Caregiving & Self-Care: Finding Balance in the Journey,” on November 18, 2025, at 7:00 PM CT / 8:00 PM ET.

Caregiving is no easy job, and out of all the attention they give to their loved ones, caregivers rarely have the opportunity or tools to care for themselves. Be inspired as Dr. Genevieve Thomas and Mrs. Wilma Char McNabb reflect on their caregiving journeys and share the tools and perspectives that helped them maintain mental and emotional wellness along the way.

Together, we’ll explore how caregivers can sustain their own health while caring for others—learning strategies for managing stress, fostering resilience, and nurturing a balanced sense of self. It’s an evening of connection, understanding, and encouragement—an essential conversation around caregiving for the caregiver.

Don’t miss the opportunity to connect with others who share your experiences and learn from experts in the field. RSVP today to join us for this meaningful dialogue on reflection, balance, and well-being.

Living the Message
Family caregivers are the quiet heroes who hold our communities together. “Plug-in to Care” reminds us that support, learning, and connection are not luxuries—they’re lifelines. This month and beyond, let’s honor caregivers by extending compassion, sharing knowledge, and building community.

At Sage Collective®, we celebrate caregivers as living embodiments of vibrant living—people whose strength, grace, and generosity reflect the very best of us all.

This November, and in every season that follows, may we each find new ways to plug in—to care, and to one another.

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07.17.25 | Community

From Garden to Table: Savoring the Benefits of Your Indoor Herb Garden

At Sage Collective®, we believe that vibrant living is about embracing the cycles of nature, the power of intention, and the small daily joys that nourish the body and spirit. Last summer, we shared the basics of creating an indoor herb garden—a wonderful way to bring greenery into your home, enhance your meals, and stay connected to the rhythms of growth. This season, we invite you to take the next step: harvesting and using your herbs in ways that foster creativity, connection, and mindfulness.

A Mindful Harvest
Tending to your herb garden is certainly about the end result, but it’s also about the quiet, steady practice of care. When you harvest your herbs, do so mindfully. Snip basil leaves or sprigs of thyme in the morning, when the flavors are most concentrated, and take a moment to appreciate the scent that rises from your fingers. Ask yourself: What does this plant teach me about patience or change? What else in my life is ready to be gathered and savored?

Simple Recipes with Heart
Now that you have a bounty of fresh herbs at your fingertips, it’s time to enjoy their flavor in meals that feel both grounding and joyful. Try these easy, herb-forward ideas:

  • Basil Pesto: Blend fresh basil leaves with garlic, olive oil, pine nuts (or walnuts), Parmesan, and a squeeze of lemon. Serve over pasta or spread on toast.
  • Mint Tea: Steep fresh mint leaves in hot water for 5–10 minutes. Add a slice of lemon or a drizzle of honey for added comfort.
  • Herbed Olive Oil: Lightly bruise rosemary, thyme, or oregano and place in a bottle with olive oil. Let sit for 1–2 weeks to infuse. Drizzle over salads, pasta, or roasted vegetables.
  • Thyme-Roasted Veggies: Toss carrots, potatoes, or squash with olive oil, salt, and fresh thyme. Roast at 400°F until golden and tender.

Each recipe is an opportunity to celebrate the labor of your care, and the richness that comes from bringing something to life with your own hands.

Tea for Two (or Ten)
Herbs also offer the chance to create personalized tea blends that comfort and uplift. Consider pairing:

  • Mint + lemon balm for relaxation
  • Thyme + sage for respiratory support
  • Lavender + chamomile for sleep and calm

You can dry your herbs by hanging them in small bunches upside down, or laying them on a mesh screen in a warm, dry spot. Once dried, store them in labeled jars and use them to prepare your own signature blends—perfect for gifting or sharing with a neighbor over conversation.

Sharing the Bounty
One of the most meaningful aspects of herb gardening is the ability to share your harvest. A small bundle of rosemary wrapped in twine, a jar of homemade herbed oil, or a few tea sachets made with love can be beautiful, heartfelt gifts. These gestures carry more than flavor—they carry the story of your care, your intention, and your willingness to nurture both plants and people.

Honoring Growth in All Its Forms
At Sage Collective®, we view these small rituals as part of a larger practice of intentional living. From the first sprout to the final harvest, your herb garden is a reflection of what’s possible when we nurture life with curiosity and compassion. It’s a daily invitation to check in, to take joy in progress, and to savor what you’ve cultivated.

As your herbs grow, so too does your capacity for reflection, creativity, and giving. Let this second season of your herb garden be one of sharing, experimenting, and staying rooted in the pleasure of what you’ve made possible.

There’s no such thing as just a windowsill garden. In the hands of someone who believes in vibrant living, it’s a testament to resilience, nourishment, and joy.

Credit: Anne Nygard on Unsplash
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07.09.25 | Health & Wellness

Beyond Fireworks: What the Fourth of July Can Still Teach Us

At Sage Collective®, we believe in embracing all of life’s complexities—holding joy and pain, celebration and struggle, side by side. As the 4th of July approaches, we invite our community to reflect on what this day promises, and also what it has yet to deliver. While many mark the occasion with picnics and fireworks, for older African Americans and others who have carried the weight of this country’s unfinished promises, the day can stir layered emotions.

Yes, the 4th of July commemorates the birth of American independence. But who has had access to that freedom—and who still struggles for it—remains an ongoing question. That’s why, each year, we take time not only to celebrate but to reflect. To ask: How do we, as a community rooted in cultural appreciation, vibrant living, and lifelong learning, make room for truth, memory, and forward movement?

Radical Hope in the Face of History
Hope, in the tradition of Black resistance, is not naïve optimism—it’s radical. It’s the kind of hope that propelled Frederick Douglass to demand accountability in 1852, when he asked, “What to the Slave is the Fourth of July?” It’s the kind of hope that allows us, even now, to hold pride in our cultural contributions while remaining critical of the structures that still need to change.

This radical hope is not passive; it’s grounded in the belief that change is possible, and that we are agents of that change, even in our later years. For the elders in our community—those who’ve marched, taught, raised generations, and kept our stories alive—this kind of hope is deeply earned.

The Right to Belong
Belonging is a powerful word. It is one thing to live in a country; it is another to feel of it. Many African Americans have wrestled with this duality for generations: loving a country that has not always loved them back. On July 4th, we reflect on what it means to both critique and claim. To declare that we are part of this nation’s fabric—not just as spectators to its history, but as authors of it.

At Sage Collective®, we believe aging deepens this sense of authorship. You’ve lived enough to know the contradictions. And you’ve lived enough to imagine something better.

Living with Complexity
Our elders teach us that holding complexity is a form of wisdom. You can grill with your family and still talk about injustice. You can sing along to a patriotic tune and still recognize its limits. You can love the idea of liberty while acknowledging that liberty has not yet been extended to all. At Sage Collective®, we hold space for all of it—the contradictions and the beauty.

Legacy and Citizenship
What does it mean to be an active citizen in your later years? It might mean voting. It might mean telling your story. It might mean mentoring, creating art, or simply refusing to be silent. We honor the idea that freedom isn’t something we receive once and for all—it’s something we continue to work for, together. Our elders’ participation in civic life is a gift that enriches communities and keeps the spirit of democracy alive.

This Fourth of July
So as we prepare to celebrate, we also remember. We honor the legacy of Frederick Douglass and so many others who demanded more of this country. We honor the legacy of our own lives—marked by resilience, creativity, and care. And we ask ourselves: What does freedom mean to me now?

At Sage Collective®, we believe it’s never too late to reflect, reimagine, and participate. This Fourth of July, let’s gather in all our truth—and step forward with radical hope.

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06.05.25 | Sage Advice®

It’s Never Too Late to Change Your Mind

At Sage Collective®, we believe that aging is an opportunity to discover new depths of your evolution. One of the most liberating truths we come to understand with time is this: it’s never too late to change your mind. Whether it’s a shift in perspective, a change in attitude towards people, or a complete reinvention of self, the ability to change your mind is not a weakness but a superpower.

Because we believe that vibrant living doesn’t mean standing still, it means challenging yourself to never stop  evolving.

Why Changing Your Mind Is a Strength, Not a Weakness
We are under the impression that age equates to certainty. We expect that once we arrive at this stage in our lives we should be able to know ourselves fully, have our set beliefs that do not change, and continue to live our life exactly the same. Although, we forget that the various life stages can be the reason for growth and change.

Changing your mind does not mean you are indecisive, it means you have enough security to reevaluate certain aspects of your life. Maybe you had an opinion years ago that caused you and someone you love to drift apart, or you thought someone was your soulmate but it turns out your story ran its course, or maybe the shirt you used to be obsessed with is hideous to you now. Whatever it may be, it is emotionally intelligent to always be questioning who you are and where you stand on certain decisions. Growth can be about sticking to your guns and advocating for what you believe in but it can also be the humble act of reassessing the past.

Real-Life Examples of Late-in-Life Pivots
Nina Simone is one powerful example. Known early in her career as a classically trained pianist and acclaimed jazz and blues singer, Simone experienced a profound shift after attending the 1961 American Society of African Culture conference in Lagos, Nigeria. The trip was life-changing. It awakened a deeper connection to her identity and political purpose. From that point on, she became a fierce voice for civil rights—performing at protest rallies, writing political anthems, and lending her artistry to the movement. She changed her mind about what her platform was for—and in doing so, changed the world.

Another remarkable story is that of Iyanla Vanzant, who initially rose to public attention as a lawyer and spiritual teacher. But her true transformation came later in life. After facing personal hardships, including the death of her daughter and the dissolution of her marriage, Vanzant stepped into her power as a healer. She became a celebrated author, spiritual counselor, and host of Iyanla: Fix My Life—a role she took on in her late 50s. Her shift wasn’t just a career pivot—it was a complete reimagining of how she would use her voice.

And consider Ron Finley, the South Central Los Angeles fashion designer who, in his 50s, decided to change his life—and his neighborhood—by planting vegetables in abandoned lots. Now known as the “Gangsta Gardener,” Finley’s work has become a movement, promoting food justice, sustainability, and self-reliance. He changed his mind about where power and purpose come from, and discovered a new form of activism in the soil beneath his feet.

Reframing Your Story
There are multiple ways to stay on your feet and remain open to change:

  • Stay curious: Read books, watch films, and listen to music that challenge your thinking.
  • Embrace dialogue: Spend time with people who see the world differently.
  • Reflect often: Journal without judgment, allowing space for evolving insights.

At Sage Collective®, we believe aging is about stepping fully into your own wisdom and embracing that wisdom. Changing your mind in your later years isn’t a sign that you’ve lost your way; it’s often proof that you’ve finally found it.

We as humans make the mistake of thinking that there is a final destination when, in reality, we never stop growing. Therefore, it is our responsibility to treat that evolution with mindful reflection and openness to the change it can inflict.

You’re never too old to change your mind—because you’re never too old to grow.

The Gangsta Gardener, Ron Finley. Credit: U.S. Embassy New Zealand (https://www.flickr.com/people/46907600@N02). Wikimedia Commons, licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic license.
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