Growing Into What You Love: How Interests Evolve at Every Age
At Sage Collective®, we often say that vibrant living isn’t about staying busy—it’s about staying engaged. The difference lies in depth. True engagement grows when curiosity meets purpose, when we give time and attention to what sparks our minds and hearts. This idea aligns beautifully with what psychologists call the growth theory of interests—the belief that our passions aren’t simply discovered; they’re developed over time.
From “finding” to “cultivating”
For many years, people were encouraged to “find their passion,” as if it were a treasure waiting to be unearthed. But research led by Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck and her colleagues shows that interests are not fixed traits—they grow through experience. The growth theory of interests suggests that we develop enthusiasm for activities by exploring them, practicing them, and allowing ourselves to be challenged.
This shift in mindset is liberating—especially for older adults. It reminds us that our interests don’t have an expiration date. We can fall in love with new ideas, art forms, technologies, and communities at any stage of life. In fact, later life often offers the freedom and perspective to explore them more deeply than ever before.
The courage to begin again
Vibrant living, at its core, is about embracing growth—physically, mentally, emotionally, and creatively. The growth theory of interests gives us permission to begin again, to approach new hobbies or learning experiences not with pressure to “be good” right away, but with openness to become. Whether it’s learning a new language, picking up watercolor painting, joining a local choir, or experimenting with virtual reality travel, the key is to start small and stay curious.
That first step might feel uncertain—but that’s exactly where growth begins. Each moment of discovery strengthens the neural pathways that make us feel alive and connected to the world around us.
Interest as a lifelong practice
Developing new interests also nurtures well-being in ways that align closely with Sage Collective®’s vision of vibrant living. Research shows that engaging in personally meaningful activities can improve mood, sharpen cognition, and increase longevity. Interests bring structure to our days, connection to our communities, and energy to our spirits.
Consider this: an interest in gardening can become a meditation on patience and renewal. A fascination with local history can blossom into volunteering at a museum. Curiosity about health and movement might evolve into a shared yoga practice. Each interest, no matter how modest at first, holds the potential to expand our sense of meaning and belonging.
A vibrant future of our own making
The growth theory of interests reminds us that becoming ourselves is a lifelong project. Passion is not something we outgrow—it’s something we continue to grow into. At Sage Collective®, we believe that each new curiosity is an invitation to vitality.
So instead of asking, “What am I passionate about?” try asking, “What am I willing to explore?”
