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10.23.25 | Arts & Culture

Growing Into What You Love: How Interests Evolve at Every Age

At Sage Collective®, we often say that vibrant living isn’t about staying busy—it’s about staying engaged. The difference lies in depth. True engagement grows when curiosity meets purpose, when we give time and attention to what sparks our minds and hearts. This idea aligns beautifully with what psychologists call the growth theory of interests—the belief that our passions aren’t simply discovered; they’re developed over time.

From “finding” to “cultivating”
For many years, people were encouraged to “find their passion,” as if it were a treasure waiting to be unearthed. But research led by Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck and her colleagues shows that interests are not fixed traits—they grow through experience. The growth theory of interests suggests that we develop enthusiasm for activities by exploring them, practicing them, and allowing ourselves to be challenged.

This shift in mindset is liberating—especially for older adults. It reminds us that our interests don’t have an expiration date. We can fall in love with new ideas, art forms, technologies, and communities at any stage of life. In fact, later life often offers the freedom and perspective to explore them more deeply than ever before.

The courage to begin again
Vibrant living, at its core, is about embracing growth—physically, mentally, emotionally, and creatively. The growth theory of interests gives us permission to begin again, to approach new hobbies or learning experiences not with pressure to “be good” right away, but with openness to become. Whether it’s learning a new language, picking up watercolor painting, joining a local choir, or experimenting with virtual reality travel, the key is to start small and stay curious.

That first step might feel uncertain—but that’s exactly where growth begins. Each moment of discovery strengthens the neural pathways that make us feel alive and connected to the world around us.

Interest as a lifelong practice
Developing new interests also nurtures well-being in ways that align closely with Sage Collective®’s vision of vibrant living. Research shows that engaging in personally meaningful activities can improve mood, sharpen cognition, and increase longevity. Interests bring structure to our days, connection to our communities, and energy to our spirits.

Consider this: an interest in gardening can become a meditation on patience and renewal. A fascination with local history can blossom into volunteering at a museum. Curiosity about health and movement might evolve into a shared yoga practice. Each interest, no matter how modest at first, holds the potential to expand our sense of meaning and belonging.

A vibrant future of our own making
The growth theory of interests reminds us that becoming ourselves is a lifelong project. Passion is not something we outgrow—it’s something we continue to grow into. At Sage Collective®, we believe that each new curiosity is an invitation to vitality.

So instead of asking, “What am I passionate about?” try asking, “What am I willing to explore?”

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10.16.25 | Community

Embracing Wabi-Sabi: Lessons in Vibrant Living

In a world that often celebrates perfection, speed, and constant growth, the Japanese tradition of wabi-sabi offers a refreshing alternative. Rooted in Zen philosophy, wabi-sabi is the art of finding beauty in imperfection, transience, and simplicity. It’s a way of seeing the world that celebrates authenticity over polish, and presence over perfection.

At Sage Collective®, we see wabi-sabi as deeply aligned with our vision of vibrant living. By embracing its principles, we invite more acceptance, mindfulness, and joy into daily life—qualities that enrich our experience as we grow older.

What is Wabi-Sabi?
Wabi-sabi can be understood as both an aesthetic and a philosophy. It finds beauty in the natural cycle of growth and decay, in weathered wood, uneven pottery, or the golden repair lines of kintsugi ceramics. More than just a visual style, it’s an attitude of humility and appreciation, reminding us that life is always in motion, always changing.

Lessons for Vibrant Living

  • Embrace Imperfection. Wabi-sabi teaches us that flaws don’t detract from beauty—they add depth and character. The same is true in our lives. Our wrinkles, our stories, and even our missteps are part of what makes us whole. Accepting imperfection allows us to release unrealistic standards and embrace self-compassion.
  • Honor Transience. Autumn leaves falling, flowers wilting, daylight fading—wabi-sabi reminds us to appreciate the fleeting nature of life. For older adults, this perspective can be liberating, encouraging us to live in the present moment and savor its richness without clinging to permanence.
  • Find Joy in Simplicity. Wabi-sabi encourages us to pare back to what matters most. Simplicity is not about lack, but about clarity—making space for meaningful relationships, mindful practices, and daily rituals that nourish us.
  • See Beauty in the Everyday. From a crack in a well-loved teacup to the quiet of a morning walk, wabi-sabi teaches us that beauty doesn’t have to be grand or flawless. It’s often found in the ordinary, waiting for us to notice.

A Wabi-Sabi Practice
Cultivating wabi-sabi in daily life doesn’t require drastic changes. Instead, it’s about small shifts in perception and practice:

  • Pause to notice: Take a few minutes each day to appreciate something simple—a breeze, a stone, a handwritten note.
  • Practice gratitude: Write down imperfections you’re thankful for—quirks, scars, or even challenges that shaped you.
  • Simplify your space: Surround yourself with items that bring meaning, even if they’re weathered or worn.
  • Celebrate change: Create seasonal rituals that honor life’s natural cycles.

Living Vibrantly, the Wabi-Sabi Way
At its heart, wabi-sabi invites us to live more gently—with ourselves, with others, and with the world around us. By embracing imperfection, honoring transience, and finding beauty in the everyday, we open ourselves to a fuller, more vibrant life.

This perspective resonates with Sage Collective®’s belief in living deeply and joyfully at every age. For when we learn to see through the lens of wabi-sabi, we discover that life’s cracks and changes are not shortcomings, but the very places where beauty—and wisdom—shine through.

 

 

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10.08.25 | Lifestyle

Everyday Awe: Finding Wonder in Autumn

As the season shifts, autumn brings with it a sense of transformation—crisp mornings, golden light, and leaves that burst into fiery hues before falling softly to the earth. For many of us, these subtle but profound changes spark something deeper: a feeling of awe. And in embracing awe, we invite ourselves into a more mindful, joyful way of living.

At Sage Collective®, we believe that awe isn’t reserved for rare, extraordinary experiences. It can be found in everyday moments, waiting quietly for us to notice. This perspective aligns with our vision of vibrant living, where wonder, creativity, and reflection are woven into the fabric of daily life.

The Science of Awe
Research has shown that experiencing awe—even in small, everyday doses—can improve mood, lower stress, and even enhance physical health. Psychologists describe awe as a state that expands our sense of perspective, helping us feel more connected to the world around us. For older adults, awe is more than a fleeting emotion—it’s a tool for cultivating resilience, gratitude, and vitality.

Everyday Invitations to Awe
Autumn offers countless ways to experience awe without having to travel far:

  • Nature’s Palette: Watch the leaves shift from green to amber to crimson, and notice the textures and patterns in their details.
  • Crisp Air: Step outside on a brisk morning, take a deep breath, and feel the vitality of the season.
  • Harvest Season: From farmer’s markets to your own kitchen, celebrate the abundance of apples, squash, and spices that mark fall’s arrival.
  • Golden Hour Walks: Wander at dusk, when the light is warm and fleeting, and notice how the world transforms around you.

Each of these experiences invites us to pause, slow down, and reconnect—with ourselves, with others, and with the beauty of the natural world.

Awe as a Daily Practice
Awe doesn’t have to be accidental. It can be cultivated intentionally through simple habits:

  • Keep an Awe Journal: Jot down one moment of wonder each day.
  • Practice Mindful Observation: Choose one thing—a tree, a sunset, even a teacup—and look at it closely, as if for the first time.
    Share Awe with Others: Call a friend or family member to tell them about something that amazed you. In sharing, the wonder grows.

Living Vibrantly with Awe
At Sage Collective®, we recognize that vibrant living comes from engaging fully with the present moment and finding joy in life’s transitions. Autumn is a reminder that change itself can be beautiful—and awe is the lens through which we see that beauty more clearly.

So this fall, let us challenge ourselves to seek awe not just in grand moments, but in the everyday: the leaf that drifts across your path, the laughter of a neighbor, the warmth of a cup of tea on a cool morning. Because when we live with awe, we live more deeply, more gratefully, and more vibrantly.

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07.17.25 | Health & Wellness

From Garden to Table: Savoring the Benefits of Your Indoor Herb Garden

At Sage Collective®, we believe that vibrant living is about embracing the cycles of nature, the power of intention, and the small daily joys that nourish the body and spirit. Last summer, we shared the basics of creating an indoor herb garden—a wonderful way to bring greenery into your home, enhance your meals, and stay connected to the rhythms of growth. This season, we invite you to take the next step: harvesting and using your herbs in ways that foster creativity, connection, and mindfulness.

A Mindful Harvest
Tending to your herb garden is certainly about the end result, but it’s also about the quiet, steady practice of care. When you harvest your herbs, do so mindfully. Snip basil leaves or sprigs of thyme in the morning, when the flavors are most concentrated, and take a moment to appreciate the scent that rises from your fingers. Ask yourself: What does this plant teach me about patience or change? What else in my life is ready to be gathered and savored?

Simple Recipes with Heart
Now that you have a bounty of fresh herbs at your fingertips, it’s time to enjoy their flavor in meals that feel both grounding and joyful. Try these easy, herb-forward ideas:

  • Basil Pesto: Blend fresh basil leaves with garlic, olive oil, pine nuts (or walnuts), Parmesan, and a squeeze of lemon. Serve over pasta or spread on toast.
  • Mint Tea: Steep fresh mint leaves in hot water for 5–10 minutes. Add a slice of lemon or a drizzle of honey for added comfort.
  • Herbed Olive Oil: Lightly bruise rosemary, thyme, or oregano and place in a bottle with olive oil. Let sit for 1–2 weeks to infuse. Drizzle over salads, pasta, or roasted vegetables.
  • Thyme-Roasted Veggies: Toss carrots, potatoes, or squash with olive oil, salt, and fresh thyme. Roast at 400°F until golden and tender.

Each recipe is an opportunity to celebrate the labor of your care, and the richness that comes from bringing something to life with your own hands.

Tea for Two (or Ten)
Herbs also offer the chance to create personalized tea blends that comfort and uplift. Consider pairing:

  • Mint + lemon balm for relaxation
  • Thyme + sage for respiratory support
  • Lavender + chamomile for sleep and calm

You can dry your herbs by hanging them in small bunches upside down, or laying them on a mesh screen in a warm, dry spot. Once dried, store them in labeled jars and use them to prepare your own signature blends—perfect for gifting or sharing with a neighbor over conversation.

Sharing the Bounty
One of the most meaningful aspects of herb gardening is the ability to share your harvest. A small bundle of rosemary wrapped in twine, a jar of homemade herbed oil, or a few tea sachets made with love can be beautiful, heartfelt gifts. These gestures carry more than flavor—they carry the story of your care, your intention, and your willingness to nurture both plants and people.

Honoring Growth in All Its Forms
At Sage Collective®, we view these small rituals as part of a larger practice of intentional living. From the first sprout to the final harvest, your herb garden is a reflection of what’s possible when we nurture life with curiosity and compassion. It’s a daily invitation to check in, to take joy in progress, and to savor what you’ve cultivated.

As your herbs grow, so too does your capacity for reflection, creativity, and giving. Let this second season of your herb garden be one of sharing, experimenting, and staying rooted in the pleasure of what you’ve made possible.

There’s no such thing as just a windowsill garden. In the hands of someone who believes in vibrant living, it’s a testament to resilience, nourishment, and joy.

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07.10.25 | Community

The Power of Porch Sitting: Mindfulness, Memory, and Connection in the Summertime

At Sage Collective®, we believe in the beauty of everyday rituals—those simple acts that slow us down, bring us joy, and connect us more deeply to ourselves and our communities. One of summer’s most beloved, and often overlooked, rituals is porch sitting.

For older African Americans especially, porch sitting is more than a seasonal pastime—it’s a cultural tradition, a space of wisdom-sharing, and a quiet act of resistance in a world that moves too fast. In this season of sunshine and stillness, we invite you to revisit this powerful practice and reflect on what it offers us today.

Porch Sitting as a Form of Mindfulness
Mindfulness doesn’t always have to look like meditation. Sometimes, it looks like a rocking chair, a warm breeze, and the hum of cicadas in the distance. It looks like watching the light change on the sidewalk, or simply sitting with no agenda.

Porch sitting slows time. It allows us to be present—noticing the color of the sky, the rustle of leaves, the smell of jasmine on the wind. This sensory engagement grounds us in our bodies and our breath, fostering a kind of meditative clarity. In a world that often glorifies productivity, porch sitting is an intentional choice to savor stillness. And that, in itself, is healing.

A Cultural Touchstone of Community and Wisdom
In many Black communities, the front porch has long been a stage for storytelling, music, debate, and neighborly connection. It’s where kids learned how to play spades, where grown folks talked politics, and where elders passed down history and advice. The porch has always been a place of belonging.

For older adults, it can continue to serve as a sacred gathering place—whether that means reconnecting with neighbors, hosting grandchildren, or simply waving to passersby. These everyday interactions build trust, keep us socially engaged, and offer moments of lightness that nourish emotional well-being.

At Sage Collective®, we celebrate the importance of such intergenerational spaces. They are places where the past, present, and future meet—where wisdom is not just shared, but lived out loud.

Porch Sitting as Self-Care
Too often, we think of self-care as something extravagant or out of reach. But true self-care is simple. It’s allowing yourself to pause. To rest your body. To ease your thoughts. To sit without the pressure of fixing or doing or solving.

Porch sitting reminds us that peace is available to us in the quiet moments. A cool drink in hand. A favorite song playing low. A conversation that doesn’t need to go anywhere. This kind of intentional rest helps regulate our nervous systems, reduces stress, and fosters gratitude. Especially in older age, these practices are vital to vibrant living.

Creating Your Summer Sanctuary
Whether you have a traditional porch, a balcony, a stoop, or even a windowsill, you can create your own summer sanctuary. Add a comfortable chair, a potted plant, a wind chime or candle—anything that brings you ease. Make it a place you return to each day, even if just for 10 minutes. Bring a journal, a book of poetry, or simply your presence. Let this be a season of pausing. Of listening to the world around you—and to yourself.

At Sage Collective®, we know that vibrant living isn’t about doing more—it’s about living well. Porch sitting reminds us that joy and wellness don’t always require movement. Sometimes, they require stillness. And presence. And the courage to simply be.

So, this summer, we invite you to step outside. To sit. To breathe. And to let the power of porch sitting reconnect you with what matters most.

Untitled Photo by Dorothea Lange, 1939 July. http://hdl.loc.gov/loc.pnp/fsa.8b33923
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06.12.25 | Lifestyle

It’s Never Too Late to Explore Love

At Sage Collective®, we believe in the possibility of living a life full of love, something that happens at any age. Whether it’s a budding romance, a deepening of existing bonds, or simply enjoying an emotional connection, love is not reserved for the young—it’s a lifelong journey. Yet, for many, the idea of finding or exploring love later in life is often stained by outdated narratives that say romance exclusively exists at a specific time in your life. We’re here to challenge that, exploring why love is always within reach, how to embrace it at any stage, and why it’s never too late to open your heart.

Myths About Age and Romance
Often there is the stereotype that love is only for the youth and once you age you lose any notion of romance. The myth goes that people stop kissing, hugging, going on dates and exploring their sensuality with their partners once they reach a certain age. That is simply not true.

Love does not fade with time, it evolves. It deepens, matures, and takes on new meaning. As we grow older, we gain the wisdom, confidence, and emotional clarity to experience love in its purest forms. It can be argued that the greatest form of love is not the one where you meet in your youth but the one you maintain in your later years. This love exists after a life of experiences making it less about petty issues and more about who you are as people and how you can love each other and yourselves simultaneously. If you can maintain a love at this stage in your life, then it is anything but irrelevant.

Real-Life Stories of Later-in-Life Love
First, there is Yvette Nicole Brown and Anthony Davis who married at 53 years old. The couple first met in their 20s but lost touch for several years. It was after Davis had sent his condolences to Brown in the wake of losing her mother that the couple reconnected and found a match.

Then there is Jeanne Gustaven and Stephen Watts who dated when they were in college but eventually broke up because Gustaven’s family was against their interracial relationship. After 42 years separated, Jeanne Gustaven set out to find Stepehen Watts as she viewed him as the one true love in her life. After a long search, she found him in a nursing home. They rekindled their love immediately and made the decision to move in together at 62 years old to live out the rest of their lives together, making up for lost time.

Tips for Exploring Love at Any Age
There is no time like the present to explore the many facets that love has to offer.  If you need a starting point, use these steps:

  • Start with self-love: Be proud of who you are and how far you have come in your life. Credit yourself for all of your life experiences.
  • Let go of societal pressure: There is no need to follow a traditional timeline. Either you found the love of your life at 25 or at 65, either way both stories are constantly evolving.
  • Communicate clearly and honestly: Be clear about your values, needs and any sort of changes you are feeling/needing. It does not matter how long you have known someone, there is always room for more communication.
  • Stay curious and adventurous: Dating and love is about exploration of the person and yourself, be open to new things by letting go of control and expectations.
  • Be patient and kind to yourself: It’s okay to take things slow or to take breaks, remember love does not have a time limit.

Aging is not a reason to give up on love, it is a sign to explore the new depths of it.

At  Sage Collective® we believe it is never too late to explore your feelings and relationships. We know that vibrant living means staying open to growth and to love. Whether it’s a new romance, a deepened friendship, or a renewed sense of self-appreciation, love can take many forms. You are not defined by your age, but by your ability and boldness to constantly be open to exploration.

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02.23.23 | Arts & Culture

Habit Making: Finding Fun

Not all things are ‘fun and games’…Or are they? Well, it depends on who you ask. One person might enjoy mountain biking down steep slopes, while another might find falling to their impending doom — i.e. bungee cord jumping — fun because of the risk involved. That isn’t to say that all fun warrants some kind of risk, because that would be further from the truth. So when we strip away the performative act involved with the idiom of ‘having fun,’ how do we instead — find it?

True fun begins with having your basic needs met. It then becomes a choice when we give ourselves permission to stop judging ourselves — giving us the ability to walk away with energy that will buoy us up long after the music has stopped, the book is finished, and the movie credits have started to roll. Finding fun doesn’t have to mean searching for it on a vacation, or within things and other people. It can be summed up as the embodiment of three things: playfulness, connection, and flow.

Playfulness

Playfulness isn’t about the act of playing as much as it is about the act of embracing freedom and lightheartedness. It means letting go of the idea that the moment has to be right or that you have to achieve something for you to play and find fun. 

Connection

Finding fun involves having a connection with the activity you’re doing. Perhaps it’s a physical activity that involves other people such as swimming, basketball, or tennis. It could even be a mental activity such as reading, or writing that you do by yourself. If the connection is clear, so is your journey to establishing what fun means to you.

Flow

Flow is the last piece to finding fun, it’s the feeling you have when you’re totally immersed in your activity. Sometimes you may even lose track of time doing it. All things are fun and games depending on the framing of an individual’s own fun. In order to establish a life purpose, and to engage more with yourself and live a fulfilling life you must be willing to embrace freedom, make your connections clear, and allow yourself to flow effortlessly from one fun activity to another!

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