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07.09.25 | Sage Advice®

Beyond Fireworks: What the Fourth of July Can Still Teach Us

At Sage Collective®, we believe in embracing all of life’s complexities—holding joy and pain, celebration and struggle, side by side. As the 4th of July approaches, we invite our community to reflect on what this day promises, and also what it has yet to deliver. While many mark the occasion with picnics and fireworks, for older African Americans and others who have carried the weight of this country’s unfinished promises, the day can stir layered emotions.

Yes, the 4th of July commemorates the birth of American independence. But who has had access to that freedom—and who still struggles for it—remains an ongoing question. That’s why, each year, we take time not only to celebrate but to reflect. To ask: How do we, as a community rooted in cultural appreciation, vibrant living, and lifelong learning, make room for truth, memory, and forward movement?

Radical Hope in the Face of History
Hope, in the tradition of Black resistance, is not naïve optimism—it’s radical. It’s the kind of hope that propelled Frederick Douglass to demand accountability in 1852, when he asked, “What to the Slave is the Fourth of July?” It’s the kind of hope that allows us, even now, to hold pride in our cultural contributions while remaining critical of the structures that still need to change.

This radical hope is not passive; it’s grounded in the belief that change is possible, and that we are agents of that change, even in our later years. For the elders in our community—those who’ve marched, taught, raised generations, and kept our stories alive—this kind of hope is deeply earned.

The Right to Belong
Belonging is a powerful word. It is one thing to live in a country; it is another to feel of it. Many African Americans have wrestled with this duality for generations: loving a country that has not always loved them back. On July 4th, we reflect on what it means to both critique and claim. To declare that we are part of this nation’s fabric—not just as spectators to its history, but as authors of it.

At Sage Collective®, we believe aging deepens this sense of authorship. You’ve lived enough to know the contradictions. And you’ve lived enough to imagine something better.

Living with Complexity
Our elders teach us that holding complexity is a form of wisdom. You can grill with your family and still talk about injustice. You can sing along to a patriotic tune and still recognize its limits. You can love the idea of liberty while acknowledging that liberty has not yet been extended to all. At Sage Collective®, we hold space for all of it—the contradictions and the beauty.

Legacy and Citizenship
What does it mean to be an active citizen in your later years? It might mean voting. It might mean telling your story. It might mean mentoring, creating art, or simply refusing to be silent. We honor the idea that freedom isn’t something we receive once and for all—it’s something we continue to work for, together. Our elders’ participation in civic life is a gift that enriches communities and keeps the spirit of democracy alive.

This Fourth of July
So as we prepare to celebrate, we also remember. We honor the legacy of Frederick Douglass and so many others who demanded more of this country. We honor the legacy of our own lives—marked by resilience, creativity, and care. And we ask ourselves: What does freedom mean to me now?

At Sage Collective®, we believe it’s never too late to reflect, reimagine, and participate. This Fourth of July, let’s gather in all our truth—and step forward with radical hope.

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08.24.23 | Community

Forgiving Oneself and Others

Forgiveness is a cornerstone of one’s personal growth journey, and its importance can’t be overstated. At the very core, forgiving yourself starts as a choice, a conscious decision to release the weight of past regrets and to make peace with your actions and decisions, and with that choice comes the foundational elements of empathy, understanding, compassion, and kindness.

Empathy plays a crucial role in this journey. By putting oneself in another’s shoes, we not only gain perspective but also allow for healing to commence. It helps us to see beyond our narrow viewpoint and understand the broader picture. It reminds us that everyone, including ourselves, is fighting a battle that we may know nothing about.

Alongside empathy, understanding is pivotal. This means recognizing our mistakes, learning from them, and accepting that everyone has their journey filled with both ups and downs. Acceptance doesn’t mean we forget or condone mistakes, but rather that we recognize them as part of our growth.

When we look at our past with love and understanding, rather than judgment, we begin to heal. And once we show compassion towards others, even when it feels undeserved, we often find that we’re lightening our own burdens. It’s a mutual process of healing – for ourselves and for others.

Kindness is the thread that stitches together the fabric of forgiveness. It could be in small, daily acts or larger gestures. Whether it’s being gentle with oneself on a tough day or showing kindness to someone who might not have treated us well, these actions have a ripple effect. Kindness not only fosters an environment where forgiveness can thrive but also nurtures our own soul.

Despite understanding these foundational elements, we must remember that the act of forgiveness is fundamentally a choice. It’s a decision we make, transitioning from denial or resentment to a state of acceptance. This choice isn’t always easy; barriers often stand in our way. Yet, with determination, these barriers can be overcome.

Even after choosing forgiveness, the journey isn’t over. It’s essential to realize that forgiveness isn’t a one-time act or a destination but an ongoing process. Making peace with past mistakes, allowing ourselves the grace to move forward, and embracing the future with resilience are all parts of this continuous journey.

While the path of forgiving oneself and others can be strewn with challenges, it is a necessary step towards achieving inner peace and profound personal growth for your own Vibrant Living. So, as you move forward, reflect upon your journey, choose forgiveness, and embrace the healing that it brings!

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08.10.21 | Community

Embracing the cultural process of aging

As we articulate in the Sage Vibrant Living Manifesto, cultural perceptions of aging have an enormous impact on individuals and their communities. As we continue to fight ageism and the traditional American notions of aging that many of us still experience today, we look to the wisdom of others to share new ways of thinking and doing.

Carl Honoré, writer and activist, argues that in order to age better we must feel better about the process. Learning how to age better in a world where aging is presented in a negative frame can be extremely hard, but it only takes a few minutes to change your perspective. In his TED Talk, Honoré explains how to embrace the aging process. Honoré also delves into his method for combating ageist traditions and practices within our lives. Watch below to learn more:

A quote sits on top of an image of two older adults laughing. The quote reads "We need to feel better about aging in order to age better," and is attributed to Carl Honore. The sage logo sits in the bottom right corner.
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